{"id":27876,"date":"2012-11-18T12:47:42","date_gmt":"2012-11-18T11:47:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thebkmag.com\/?p=27876"},"modified":"2012-11-18T12:47:42","modified_gmt":"2012-11-18T11:47:42","slug":"friends-fashion-fame-fake-rant","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thebkmag.com\/rebuild\/eclectic\/friends-fashion-fame-fake-rant\/","title":{"rendered":"Fake Friends, Fans, Fashion and Fame a Short Rant"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<br \/>\n<figure id=\"attachment_27877\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-27877\" style=\"width: 560px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/thebkmag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/11\/Fake-Friends.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-27877\" title=\"Fake Friends\" src=\"https:\/\/thebkmag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/11\/Fake-Friends-560x207.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"560\" height=\"207\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-27877\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Friends &amp; Fans<\/figcaption><\/figure><br \/>\nAs I look back over my 25+ years of being in the Fashion Biz, one of the things I have noticed (and this is not exclusive to Fashion) that this formula applies.<br \/>\nFashion + Fame + Fans = Fake Friends<br \/>\nand the inverse applies as well<br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>&#8211;<\/strong> <\/span>Fashion <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>&#8211;<\/strong><\/span> Fame = &#8220;0&#8221; Fans and Fake Friends<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/thebkmag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/11\/enemies-vs-fake-friends.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-27878\" title=\"enemies vs fake friends\" src=\"https:\/\/thebkmag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/11\/enemies-vs-fake-friends.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"320\" height=\"251\" \/><\/a><br \/>\nSo to those of you on the rise noticing that you seem to have a lot more &#8220;Friends and Fans&#8221; than when things weren&#8217;t going so great, best to go back to your roots and do a serious\u00a0assessment of your reality. Oh and as one Fashion Stylist who&#8217;s name will remain anonymous once said to us (just after attempting to destroy the reputation of an Artist so dear to us and not knowing how close we knew him, <strong>&#8220;Loyalty, Loyalty? What Loyalty, there is none in this business. It is Dog Eat Dog&#8230;Kill or Be Killed!&#8221;\u00a0<\/strong><br \/>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/2jCuzN7r424\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" frameborder=\"0\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As I look back over my 25+ years of being in the Fashion Biz, one of the things I have noticed (and this is not exclusive to Fashion) that this formula applies&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":27877,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_is_tweetstorm":false,"jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","enabled":false}}},"categories":[47],"tags":[95,38],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/paG8MM-7fC","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":5812,"url":"https:\/\/thebkmag.com\/rebuild\/bkblog\/benjamin-kanarek-blog-fashion-photo-contest-1\/","url_meta":{"origin":27876,"position":0},"title":"The Benjamin Kanarek Blog Fashion Photo Contest No.1","author":"Benjamin Kanarek","date":"February 17, 2010","format":false,"excerpt":"The BK Blog Fashion Photo Contest, The winner will get a One Hour Phone Call Tutorial with Benjamin Kanarek to discus anything relating to Fashion-Beauty Photography","rel":"","context":"In &quot;BKBlog&quot;","block_context":{"text":"BKBlog","link":"https:\/\/thebkmag.com\/rebuild\/category\/bkblog\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thebkmag.com\/rebuild\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/02\/Blue-6.jpg?resize=350%2C200&ssl=1","width":350,"height":200,"srcset":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thebkmag.com\/rebuild\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/02\/Blue-6.jpg?resize=350%2C200&ssl=1 1x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thebkmag.com\/rebuild\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/02\/Blue-6.jpg?resize=525%2C300&ssl=1 1.5x"},"classes":[]},{"id":17147,"url":"https:\/\/thebkmag.com\/rebuild\/bkblog\/politics-fashion-photography-part-22-dont-give-up-your-day-job\/","url_meta":{"origin":27876,"position":1},"title":"The Politics of Fashion Photography Part 22 &#8211; Do Not Give Up&#8230; Your Day Job","author":"Benjamin Kanarek","date":"May 8, 2011","format":false,"excerpt":"WestEast Magazine Benjamin Kanarek Blog Photography Contest Or a synopsis of the WestEast Magazine Benjamin Kanarek Blog Fashion Beauty Photography Contest I have had the opportunity and privilege of being allowed to participate on several photography and fashion photography forums over the last few years. 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